A wriggle to know the real me, to explore the things coming out in my way.. a lot has done yet a lot has to be done.. i hardly have any regret from life.. i just love my life the way it is for if the past haven't had happened i wouldn't have know the value of my present n my future.. My blog is a reflection of what i feel when I'm glad to skyrocketing heights and also when I'm low to seabed depths.. my experiences.. my memories and many more things that you may revael youself..!!
xOxOxO..!!

Saturday, March 26, 2011

ALLURINGLY BLITHE.........."the devdas sisters".......... :P.........!!

20th of march.......holi (as in other states of india)........9:45 in d morng.......n i jus woke up.......my phn rang (keep blee.....)....luk'd at it....an unknw num......decided nt to tk d call....bt dn i gave a luk agn noticing it's dat d number din belong to jammu...(as only a fer jerks of jmu usually call to abrade)......so i picked up d call...n said hello......n a vry alluring n sweet voice broke up from d other side wishing me happy holi......i was so full of surprise...n happiness...so mcuh of t...d muchness took a long tym to sink in...cz it was my twinny on d other side....n i hesrd 4m her after so long....aww i have been missing her so badly...n yeah finally she cald......this post had to be had to be here along ago...bt i was a bit busy.......bt yeah for all those ever cherished moments that i have spent with you,makin a new memory every new day,taklin our heart out...evn though u hardly say about anything that may b troubling u.....yet those silly talks,serious issues n all that we have ever shared mean a lot to me...n i knw to u too......those shoppin trips,those 'romanchak' excursions,those exchange of sandals,those eating sessions at ccd,dominos,n where not........those long talks in the colg gardens,those nimbopani ice candies we would have our way back home......hellot of memories...all of dem equally cherished by me......i still dun get why people used to call us sister...."u luk so identical"...."is she ur sister....??"...."where's your sister....??"........i seriously doubt if we look identical even in minutest senses yet.....no ambiguity abiut being soul sisters.......we had so much in commom...our interests...our thinking....our likings......hell...derz jus so much...so many visuals went through my mind....in a jiffy.......it makes me a lil sad dat u r nt here....bt u r always der in d best of my memories...always supporting me...always  pushin me to bring out the best in me......love you always...hope to c u soon.....missing u alot............!!


ps: girl power rocks.......!!

Saturday, March 19, 2011

guilty or innocent.........!!

 thanx for tagging me eksha ...!!
RULE 1- You can only say Guilty or Innocent.
RULE 2- You are not
allowed to explain anything unless someone messages you and asks!
RULE 3-
Copy and paste this into your notes, delete my answers, type in your answers and
tag to your friends to answer this.

Asked someone to marry you?
innocent
Ever kissed someone of the same sex? Guilty
Danced on a table in a
bar? Innocent
Ever told a lie? Guilty
Had feelings for someone whom you
can’t have back? innocent
Kissed a picture? Guilty
Slept in until 5 PM? Guilty
Fallen asleep at work/school? Guilty
Held a snake? Innocent
Been suspended from school? Innocent
Worked at a fast food restaurant? Innocent
Stolen from a store? Innocent
Been fired from a job? Innocent
Done something you regret? Guilty
Laughed until something you were drinking came out your nose? Guilty
Caught a snowflake on your tongue? Innocent
Kissed in the rain? Innocent
Sat on a roof top? Guilty
Kissed someone you shouldn't? Innocent
Sang in the shower? Guilty
Been pushed into a pool with all your clothes on? Innocent
Shaved your head? Innocent
Had a boxing membership? Innocent
Made a boyfriend cry? Guilty
Been in a band? Innocent
Shot a gun? Innocent
Donated Blood? Guilty
Eaten alligator meat? Innocent
Eaten cheesecake? Guilty
Still love someone you shouldn’t? Innocent
Have/had a tattoo? Innocent
Liked someone, but will never tell who? Innocent
Been too honest? Guilty
Ruined a surprise? Guilty
Ate in a restaurant and got really bloated that you couldn’t walk afterward? Guilty
Erased someone in your friends list? Guilty
Dressed in a woman’s clothes (if you’re a guy) or man’s clothes (if you’re a girl)? Guilty
Joined a pageant? Innocent
Been told that you’re handsome or beautiful by someone who totally meant what they said? Guilty
Had communication with your ex? Guilty
Got totally drunk on the night before exam? Innocent
Got totally angry that you cried so hard? Guilty

it was fun.....!!

ps i caught up too late......still i would love yo tag lee.....n ...G.....n many more bt dey r nt here....!!

The Band..The Baaja....n ofcourse The Baraat....... :P


As I said....this blog is about my experiences............this
time I was hit with the much awaited wedding of my friend A (used to b a very dear friend of mine
actually
).......well A was getting married n of course my mom dad started
to worry about me long before this actually started (after my sis marriage to b
precise).....perhaps coming back to d wedding....of course it was a grand
one.....but if you think i am going to drape you with some weary, ho-hum or
irksome story of a wedding.....then let me tell you...no no......m gonna tell u
about some 'nain mataka' that was
going on around us (we were actually 3
friends over dere.....me,J n I
).......there was a girl named D...n a boy
named H.......well the boy not only looked like her child but was actually
quite younger than the girl (her bright
golden eye makeup made her look evn more older...n all i cud remember in my
head was....AUNTY AUNTY....dat my angels used to sing for...ok let it
b.....back to nain mataka stuff ....sure d song going in their head would have
been ....'aankho ki gustakhiaan'
)......n then there came the mehendi
function.......D had an exam the next day but of course putting heena on her
hands was much more important especially when her jaanu H was around......now
Dz mother wanted to go back home bt D.... as i told u putting heena was the
most important thing for her.....so the mother left....n H told her mother.. "dun
wry aunty.. .I’ll drop D home...."....n then everyone could see the
passing of smiles n those exchanging of glances.......that were no more chup
chupke.....!!

After D got henna on her hand.....she stood behind us.....the
next tym we saw her she was nxt to H.....n then they entered an empty
room.....the three of us...me,J n I could'nt hold ur laughs inside anymore...n
so we busted out like anything.....n soon after that everyone got to know about
what it could be related to......as expected everyone started lookin for two of
them.....n started calling there names.....n then....ahh you people are smart
enough to guess what would have happened......!!




gosh it was great fun t watch all of this to happen in a marriage....it
made the marriage so full of spice.....the hot talk was not at all related to
bride or the groom anymore...D n H stole the show...lollz...... :P

Friday, March 18, 2011

try killing that villian in you....!!

There's no one else on the earth except human...for whom the words: 'GOOD' and
'BAD' could ever be used....
Ever since our childhood...we are taught to be
'good' ...from 'NOT being super selfish' to 'being the one.. overflowing with
generosity'....
from 'always having empathy for others' to 'being a true
philanthropist'..
But sorry to say... as i have grown up...I sometimes find all these story
books...such as 'panchatantra' , 'hitopadesh', etc just so useless...
"They
are stories that are meant to inspire kids to hold a good character and to be a
responsible person... who may at some point of time in his life gives so much to
none other than the mankind...
The values that tried to be inculcated through
them may hold the kids for the time they are kids...but as we see time chart
growing...these values tend to fall... obviously due to so many external factors
and hence largely because of inner conflicts... Values produced have become so
difficult to retain..
coming back....
Being 'good' is 'great'... and being 'bad' is the
'worst'.... why??
Why is it that ' It is so difficult to hold a good habit....and equally
difficult to loose a bad one...'...??
It is always the darkness that tempts us....Humans are 99 per cent
animals.
And there's only 1 per cent that makes us different from animals
-- that makes us human.
That is our larger brain, our ability to imagine,
to think beyond ourselves, beyond the here and now. This ability is a
double-edged sword: it can make us worse than animals, exploit, be cruel, or
better than them, empathise, be generous.
The former provides us with the
thrill of power and domination, the latter demands great effort and
detachment.
We would rather be predators than prey. Animals become predators for
survival. When humans become predators, not for survival, but to feel
significant and validated and powerful, they turn into
villains.